Community terms

Version 2026-11-07-v3. Operator: Lucas Zarzeczny. Support: Lucas.Zarzeczny@gmail.com.

An adult friendship beta

This beta is for adults aged 18 and over. It is for friendship and shared activities, including couples making friends with couples—not dating, anonymous matching, or rating people. Signup uses self-attestation, which is not verified age assurance.

What is not allowed

Child sexual abuse or exploitation, sexual content involving minors, grooming, trafficking, non-consensual sexual material, pornography, threats, harassment, hate, stalking, fraud, spam, impersonation and intellectual-property infringement are prohibited. Do not post anyone’s private information or recordings without authorization.

Your contributions

You retain ownership of your lawful contributions and grant the operator the limited permission needed to store and display them to the audiences you choose. Only share content you own or have permission to use. Catalogue availability is not a license to redistribute a book, movie or song. Each participant needs lawful access to external subscription services.

Safety and moderation

You can report a user or shared content and block another person. The operator may remove content or suspend accounts. Reports are reviewed by the named operator, not an automated emergency service. For immediate danger, contact local emergency services. A local self-hosted development installation has no staffed moderation team.

Beta limitations

Features and availability can change; no friendship outcome is guaranteed. Preserve important copies of your own writing. You can leave a plan or group at any time. Optional third-party players may serve advertising and impose subscriptions or other terms. No ad controls are removed or bypassed.

Memberships, tickets and hosts

When the operator enables payments, optional memberships and event tickets are sold through Stripe. Hosts who sell tickets must have a verified phone and a payout account with Stripe Connect; they receive each ticket's price minus the platform fee shown when they set up payouts. If a host cancels an event, or staff remove it, every paid ticket is refunded. Leaving an event or club yourself does not refund a ticket. Hosts are responsible for running what they sell.

Meeting new people

Events, clubs and Discover are for members with a verified phone. A verified badge means the person controls a phone number; it is not an identity or background check. Meet in public places, tell a friend where you're going, and report anything that feels wrong.